Life me take a stand

Why do we vacilate in our decsions...
because we are coward,scared of believing in our own decisions.
its very important to take stand in life irrespective of win or loose because only this stand will give you an image,people will recognize you because of your stand.
Consider the case of the telecom SME that came to campus few days back.They came to India which may be a wrong decision but they stick to it

MBA -An eye opener

I repent for my decision to join MBA but I love this decision for helping me to know that despite being 25 years completed in life,I am still not developed,a lot has to be done.
1) I am not good with people,people generally doesn't get comfortable around me.
2)Negative vibes
3)Not funny
4)Not good in talks

Need to improve a lot.
I will do that.
I have done a lot.
Take a stand in life and stick to it
Mistakes I have done here:
Wrote CFA
Loss of Focus/Career
Didn't apply for Blash/Applied for cashonova

Start rejecting those things which you are not going to do

I don't use my brains

Archit thought process

You cannot beg respect.You earn respect

The best thing about this guy is his thought process.
His Trade finance interview(the way showed how does he know the madam and the way he drove the interview)
I went along with him to meet EBTC and the way he told that we already had contacts and we know ,to the indian man,the way he controlled the difficult talk with Wolf,the non monetary thing is exceptional.
Despite being wrong,he never says so.We could have saved more than 1 hr but archit drove us somewhere.We were furiating but he didn't loose temper,carried on with the wrong path.
One thing I want to learn is :
Success doesn't matter rather the process to pursue it matters.Its very important to focus on the process and not the success.Success may come and go but process needs to be perfect

Prof. O. P. Wali -an inspiration

Today was my first class of this trimester.
The subject was IT applications in Management but the way Wali taught us,rather taught is not the right word for it,was amazing.
His way of questioning,why this happens what it is,frame in your own words,out of the book approach ,and examples like baababaazar.com,jaldi.com were inspiring,to think beyond the books and theory.Hope I will love the subject too.

Kanpur :I have fallen in love with it

I have spent my childhood in this city and could never realized the attachment I have with this city but now whenever I come to this city,I use to fell a deep emotional attachment with it.Pot holed roads, tempo and autos, abusive languages flying around along with pollution,dust,dirt,smoke,smog,filth,cow,pig,dung,rickshaws,GUTKHA sachets and the road side kiosks selling chat n all is what I love about Kanpur. These 7 days in Kanpur were unforgettable. Coming out of train to this city, I always get that feeling which a child used to get meeting his mother. Life is so static herein like a snapshot as if nothing has changed over a decade or so. The taxi fares are more or less the same, the famous bara devi festival is having same kind of shops, same people buying same stuff year after year, the same shops selling (forty naaaeeeen………..ninty naaaaeeeen……..ek se badh kar ek design) year after year. People herein are very proud of whatever they have done in life, so much content they are which makes me feel jealous about them sometimes. I mean how can a person be so happy about his job of pulling a rickshaw or selling bananas in a crossroad but they are. Day before yesterday, I went to a post office and realized that if we would have removed the computers from the place, the office would have resembled the offices of 1950’s.The pile of papers everywhere, the same yellow paint on walls which we use to see in every government office, the roof supported by some wooden logs here and there, a kettle for tea, the same old desert coolers making the constant zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz sound and some 3 -4 middle aged people discussing about how ramsanehi crashed his scooter into a truck and was unscathed. Time warps like anything here.24 hours is a big time in this city. People use to utilize this time by fighting with other people on issues which they consider very serious. Local Newspapers are full of news of brawls over water,girls,rent and the false egos people have over it. Anyone can become a rebel and is ready to overthrow the government and kill all the police walas if his electricity is disconnected because of non payment of bills. People have the zeal to change the system, to change the locality, to revolutionize the city but I don’t know why they don’t have passion to change themselves. Change for betterment, change for their own sake, to think something big. Unfortunately people who are thinking generally become emigrants of the city and start their lives in some big metros.
Infact,I have changed a bit.I mean, I love this city and the people of it but I use to get scared thinking about drinking water outside my home or eating in a road side dhaba, or mingling with people of this city.I enjoy their company, observing them, their talks, their friendliness, their prides in kicking someone on petty issues, their lives, marriages, wives, children, friends but getting nearer to them is becoming a difficult thing to me .I never used to be like this. I always wanted to be one of them, be a kanpuriya, but everytime something inside me resists. I am leaving Kanpur with the same old guilt of not living the real life of Kanpur .Hopefully next time,I would be able to do so.